tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2935422038074766698.post8682447518044520588..comments2022-11-03T00:32:44.602-07:00Comments on muttering: The Plan BUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2935422038074766698.post-39497899007553133932011-03-03T19:23:44.932-08:002011-03-03T19:23:44.932-08:00"The Way We Were." Ahhhh. "Why her?..."The Way We Were." Ahhhh. "Why her? Why did you have to go to HER?" <br /><br />I'm glad your guy appreciates what he has. He's lucky to have someone who appreciates the effort.<br /><br />I do like being single, although it means I have to work harder at having a social life. But after a bout of being pissed off that nobody was ever available to go out, I did manage to see a play with one friend and have dinner with another. And realized that they bored me. Really, really bored me. And as I ask people to do other things, I hear that it;s too late or they;d rather sit on the couch because it;s been a long day, etc. So the lesson is that at least when I do something alone I enjoy the company. I went out last night and danced my butt off for three hours to a band that did a Bee Gees tribute. I don't know any of my friends that would have enjoyed it as much. It was heaven. But yeah, I'd really like a boyfriend. If I could go straight to that without the dating, I'd be happy.JChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02031088973944663332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2935422038074766698.post-7646963220758590942011-02-26T20:13:38.321-08:002011-02-26T20:13:38.321-08:00Ooooh, ouch.
I can't lie. My husband only to...Ooooh, ouch.<br /><br />I can't lie. My husband only told his family about me right before we moved in together, over 6 months after we met. Turned out that was his thing, though, not about me, as it is usually. Of course I took it pretty personally.<br /><br />I'm lucky if only because I have this guy who keeps giving it his best, or a rendition of that when what I consider his best is different than what he is capable of ... I know what I mean by that but I don't really know how to explain!<br /><br />I loved being single, but hated dating with a passion. Funny that.<br /><br />I loved that you loved Spock. Me? Robert Redford (The Way We Were), Chachi (uh huh) aaaaand Johnny Depp in 21 Jump Street.<br /><br />What can I say.karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15428202747324083680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2935422038074766698.post-52966741127207305272011-02-26T20:07:20.392-08:002011-02-26T20:07:20.392-08:00Why is it the men we find so compelling are the on...Why is it the men we find so compelling are the ones who make us work so hard just for that little treat they toss our way once in awhile? What is it that makes these self-contained weapons of mass destruction so addictive? When I was a kid, I had a crush on Mr. Spock from Star Trek. Yes, the man with no emotions. That didn't bode well. Is it the feeling of conquest, that the prize is somehow more worth it when emotional bloodletting is involved? In my early 30s I dated a guy that I was completely addicted to. After about a year of dating, he threw a birthday brunch for himself and I helped. He had lots of out-of-town friends in for it, and as they came in, I introduced myself (he would never introduce me). As I held out my hand to shake theirs, I watched the blank expressions on their faces and realized he'd never mentioned me to anyone. I felt like a cliche.JChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02031088973944663332noreply@blogger.com