tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2935422038074766698.post6144426601508185505..comments2022-11-03T00:32:44.602-07:00Comments on muttering: Life, death, and favours askedUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2935422038074766698.post-49658013653765956022012-07-11T00:10:43.092-07:002012-07-11T00:10:43.092-07:00Thank you. I don't mind that you saw this now....Thank you. I don't mind that you saw this now. I think it was the heat. That's what I'm blaming everything on, and the pacific northwest isn't particularly heaty. (heh, chinese term, and I'm not even using it the right way for that.)<br /><br />Mothers, eh? I'm just trying to figure out how to be one that creates less unsettling, less baggage. Me? I'm finding that I am really having to work on boundaries and setting clear limits, still at my age. Ugh. Very clumsy work.karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15428202747324083680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2935422038074766698.post-33799265083816512982012-07-10T20:03:42.661-07:002012-07-10T20:03:42.661-07:00Hey Karen,
For some reason I didn't see this ...Hey Karen,<br /><br />For some reason I didn't see this on my reading list until today. Loss can be so much more complicated than we expect, and so much more quiet. Mothers. They are so big and so pervasive; we can get clarity, but there's always an unsettling. I know you'll get through this in your own best way, and I will vote for your gals; I hope I'm not too late.<br /><br />You're awesome.JChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02031088973944663332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2935422038074766698.post-60215330661426243132012-07-10T10:57:46.802-07:002012-07-10T10:57:46.802-07:00Thanks honey. Thanks for being here.Thanks honey. Thanks for being here.karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15428202747324083680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2935422038074766698.post-19708062867538436422012-07-10T09:37:15.670-07:002012-07-10T09:37:15.670-07:00x o xx o xThe Beekeeper's Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01826056205697443900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2935422038074766698.post-12861176582452971542012-07-09T14:03:56.480-07:002012-07-09T14:03:56.480-07:00Thank you Sian. It is a journey, that is for certa...Thank you Sian. It is a journey, that is for certain. Negotiating the "stuff" we inherit as a group right now (siblings). More negotiations around behaviours and skills than stuff, truthfully. Tricky, especially at these kinds of times.karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15428202747324083680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2935422038074766698.post-34751920662667038642012-07-09T13:38:33.466-07:002012-07-09T13:38:33.466-07:00oh hon, I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. I...oh hon, I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. I hope you are doing okay. xxxSianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15110664157316853976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2935422038074766698.post-74998790689054006562012-07-03T17:04:25.886-07:002012-07-03T17:04:25.886-07:00Thank you J. You are sparkly, so maybe that is why...Thank you J. You are sparkly, so maybe that is why. And funky and fun, even when you don't know it. xoxoxkarenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15428202747324083680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2935422038074766698.post-91407635891620849372012-07-03T16:40:55.717-07:002012-07-03T16:40:55.717-07:00I love them. They are sparkly and ethereal and fu...I love them. They are sparkly and ethereal and funky and fun.<br />I love you. I'm sorry about your mom.<br />xoxoLucidLotushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10265635822495261606noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2935422038074766698.post-36008274144752382032012-07-02T21:38:22.190-07:002012-07-02T21:38:22.190-07:00Thank you Amber. I can't even go there about m...Thank you Amber. I can't even go there about my other parent, our relationship barely exists now ... at least with my mom it was complicated. Your comment means a lot to me.karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15428202747324083680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2935422038074766698.post-86064307632897125052012-07-02T20:14:34.700-07:002012-07-02T20:14:34.700-07:00I am sorry for your loss. I know what I want to s...I am sorry for your loss. I know what I want to say in this next sentence just not how to say it. I feel that when my mother's time is up I will be having very similar feelings.Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03777609339556901804noreply@blogger.com